Just Because I Can Sew Doesn’t Mean I Will

I could, but I won’t

Sometimes I think knowing how to sew is a bit of a curse. People think just because I can sew that I am willing to sew anything for them. A prom dress? Sure, you can pay for the $50 worth of cheap satin, and I’ll spend 100 hours to make your little Princess’s dreams come true! Costumes for the school play where someone else bought not enough fabric? I’ll make that handkerchief sized remnant into a skirt! Or my personal favorite… “It’s just a zipper!”.

Being “able to” and being “willing to” are really two different things. My own mending pile downstairs consists of two pairs of injured long johns for my outdoorsy husband, a laundry bag that I got the bright idea that I should wash… it kind of fell apart in the washer… and a skirt from this summer that I thought I’d shorten. Given its November now, this one can move down in the queue.

None of these projects have any priority right now. It’s barely five weeks until Christmas, I have gifts to finish, and I’ll inevitably start a new quilt just because its “cozy” season. I literally have no time for your zipper. And it was wrong of you to ask. You are a doctor, and I wouldn’t ask you to just give me a quick appendectomy… it’s small, after all and not even a necessary organ! Please take your project to a tailor. I saw a sign by the local donut shop the other day that boasted they will do a zipper for $8 and hem your pants for 6! They want your business, I do not.

So, if you will excuse me, I must sweep all these mending projects off my sewing machine table so I can get started on that new quilt. Right after I finish the would-be Christmas gifts leftover from last year!

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If It’s Not Quilting, It Can Wait

Waiting for a quilter

It always makes me sad when I hear married people complain about the amount of time their other half spends on their hobbies. I think hobbies are an absolutely necessary respite from the daily grind. My life is certainly better off for them. I enthusiastically believe everyone should have some kind of hobby. Certainly, filling one’s days with the drudgery of work and household chores is not very satisfying. I often wonder what people who don’t have hobbies do with their non-working time. Go to the gym? Perish the thought.
My husband and I are both hobby fanatics. He has his model trains, his tractors, his “camper project” (I’m secretly hoping that one never comes to fruition….), but he knows the house rules: “Is there fire? Is there blood? No? Then don’t interrupt me when I am quilting.” Sometimes I feel a bit guilty about the time I spend with my sewing machine, but then I think of all the time this gives him for his hobbies: fixing old tractors, working on the truck(s), generally making a huge mess in the back yard. As long as he’s not setting a can of oil down on my stack of fat quarters, I really don’t mind what he’s doing. He’s happy working on his projects and I have mine. I think it makes us more compatible. Everyone needs time to do their own thing.
Over the years, he’s developed a system of not asking me to come quick and do something but rather he prefaces each request with, “When you have time…” or “When you get a minute…” Me being the consummate engineer by training, that time might not actually come until 20, 30, 75 or more minutes later. Technically, he did say “when you have time”. I can’t help it if that took 90 minutes! He knows I married him for better or for worse. But quilting, my dear, is forever.

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Best Selling Item at Craft Fairs… It’s Not What you Think

Best Selling Item at Craft Fairs

Cozy weather is here and every year at about this time I am stricken with an urge that I must fight: the urge to gear up for craft fairs. I live in New England so around here they are particularly abundant. It all started back in college. My school had this very, very long hallway through the main building, affectionally known as “The Infinite Corridor”. For some modest fee, I think it was 10 bucks, they’d let the students set up a table to sell crafts. Every year, my broke friend and I would scheme about what we could sell to make some much needed holiday cash.
The first year, our efforts were modest but rewarded. We bought mini Christmas ball ornaments from an actual Five and Dime and made them into earnings. This is something anyone can buy at Target® now, but at the time it was relatively innovative. Unfortunately for us, these were super cheap to make and sold relatively well. It was the beginning of our downfall. Due to their relative success, we decided next year we’d do something even more grand. We decided to make fancy Christmas stockings, the kind that looked like old Victorian boots and were made from cool upholstery style fabrics decorated with beaded trim and lace. As much as it was against our nature, we started early and made lots of stockings.
The week of the highly anticipated craft fair came, and our hopes were dashed. No one wanted to buy cool Christmas stockings. We surmised that maybe college students were “too grown up” care about stockings anymore. We started planning for next year. This time, we’d make cute little stuffed animal ornaments, like puppies and kitties (even pigs!) with little holiday hats. These proved to be incredibly time consuming, but as college students we figured our labor being “free” was acceptable. Again, our hopes were squashed. That year, we discovered a disturbing turn of events at the craft fair: some enterprising graduate student was simply buying trays of samosas from a local Indian restaurant right across the street, marking them up to $1 each and selling out before lunch. Outrageous! These were not even “crafts”! We were furious but determined. Before that year’s fair was even over, we hatched a new plan.
The next morning, we arrived still with our cute puppy ornaments but also armed with pans and pans of baked goods. We made my friend’s famous Apple Sauce Cake and Carrot Cake in abundance and sold them for $1 per slice. We figured we were better than the Samosa Lady (she predictably came back the next day) because we at least provided napkins which we’d of course commandeered from the cafeteria. We sold out. We ended up making 80 bucks each that year, a veritable fortune at the time.
I still have one of the stockings my friend made all those years ago: a super cute faux fur dalmatian print stocking with ruffles and fake pearls. I still put it up every year. It serves not only as a reminder to never participate in a holiday craft fair again, but also as a token of our dear friendship which is still going strong after 35 years!

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I’m Not Procrastinating

I’m Not Procrastinating

A wise man once said, “Only put off until tomorrow what you are willing to die having left undone”. Specifically, these words were immortalized by Spanish painter, sculptor, and ceramicist Pablo Picasso who was one of the most influential artists of the 20th century. Pablo knew what was important: your art, not the dishes. Sure, it’s important to be productive and useful and maybe even a little bit tidy, but there are only so many hours in the day. If you prioritized keeping your house clean, it would probably look very nice and make your mom happy, but you’d never have time for creating art whether that be paintings, beautiful knitted scarves or handmade quilts.
I never wake up and think, “what am I going to clean today?” I wake up thinking about my art, what comics do I need to draw today, maybe today is a writing day, or maybe it’s a more practical “coloring stuff in” day, but no matter what, creating comes first. Maybe I’m not even going to draw today. Maybe today I’m going to work on a quilt. I save the dishes and the laundry for when I’m tired and my creativity is at a lull. If you are a night person, maybe you do the chores first, while you are still sleepy, the coffee hasn’t kicked in yet and your mind is ramping up. Either way, you should always utilize the time of day when you feel the most enthusiasm and energy to focus on your art.
Many times, creative people will get distracted by cleaning, household tasks or other minutia claiming they “need” to get these things done before they can settle down and focus on creating. This is really just a delay tactic because creating is hard and takes real effort. It’s easy to fold socks. It’s hard to look at that blank canvas or page, or that neatly folded stack of fat quarters wondering what form they are going to take. No matter how hard it is or how stuck you feel at the time, just get started. Start anywhere. Once you just get started, the creativity will flow. Remember, if you were going to die tomorrow, better to leave the dishes undone than to leave this earth with your art still inside you.

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