Handmade Gifts: the Good, the Bad and the Quilted

Handmade gifts for all… just don’t do it.

I know you want to make all handmade gifts this year. Every crafty person does, for uniqueness, sustainability, customization… the reasons are as many as the holiday themed fat quarters in your stash. But, as my business school professor once told the entire class, just because you can make something, doesn’t mean you should. My justifications are many, but the main ones are:

  • Time – You are totally running out of it. Unless you literally started in January, you are never going to get it all done. Trust me, I have tried many times. In September, everyone is busy at work making up for slacking all July and August. In October you have to make little Janie’s Halloween costume and tree props for the school play. In November, there’s Thanksgiving which means shopping and cleaning the entire house for two weeks, cooking for a week and another week of putting the house back in order. Now it’s December, you are decorating, making holiday treats, going to neighborhood and office parties and trying to get work done ahead of time so you can take a few days off during the kids’ school vacation. There simply isn’t enough time. Now, you are angry.
  • Mismatched sensibilities – I was never so heartbroken for someone else’s gift giving experience gone wrong as I was when I witnessed a mismatched gift making attempt by a member of my rug hooking club. She spent months on a beautiful hooked rug of a primitive style house surrounded by trees and birds, dripping with New England charm. It was just lovely – we fellow hookers sighed at its beauty. She made it as a gift for the family who had hosted her daughter as an exchange student. The family wasn’t from New England, so they didn’t find this style of craft charming, nor did they even understand it. They honestly didn’t even know if it was supposed to function as an actual rug, as a piece of wall art or mat for a guinea pig cage – they literally had no idea what it even was. She later described the bewildered looks on the recipients’ faces and we were all absolutely heartbroken for her. Sometimes a storebought gift is just more appropriate, even if it is less heart felt.
  • Weird reciprocity – Unless the recipient is also a maker of handmade gifts, giving someone a handmade gift creates an unfortunate circle of weird reciprocity. They know you spent tons of time on your gift, so now they feel obligated to either give you a handmade gift (made by someone else because they can’t… that’s how I once received a woven poncho) or, and this has happened to me more than a few times, they give you craft supplies. They thoughtfully, albeit mistakenly, think you craft so therefore ANY craft supplies must be good! This is why I now own an entire shopping bag full of “vintage” pink and orange scratchy acrylic yarn.

If you really want to make stuff this holiday season, simply make yourself a scarf or a quilt or decorations for your own house. This way, you can be assured that the recipient is absolutely going to love your gift!

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Best Selling Item at Craft Fairs… It’s Not What you Think

Best Selling Item at Craft Fairs

Cozy weather is here and every year at about this time I am stricken with an urge that I must fight: the urge to gear up for craft fairs. I live in New England so around here they are particularly abundant. It all started back in college. My school had this very, very long hallway through the main building, affectionally known as “The Infinite Corridor”. For some modest fee, I think it was 10 bucks, they’d let the students set up a table to sell crafts. Every year, my broke friend and I would scheme about what we could sell to make some much needed holiday cash.
The first year, our efforts were modest but rewarded. We bought mini Christmas ball ornaments from an actual Five and Dime and made them into earnings. This is something anyone can buy at Target® now, but at the time it was relatively innovative. Unfortunately for us, these were super cheap to make and sold relatively well. It was the beginning of our downfall. Due to their relative success, we decided next year we’d do something even more grand. We decided to make fancy Christmas stockings, the kind that looked like old Victorian boots and were made from cool upholstery style fabrics decorated with beaded trim and lace. As much as it was against our nature, we started early and made lots of stockings.
The week of the highly anticipated craft fair came, and our hopes were dashed. No one wanted to buy cool Christmas stockings. We surmised that maybe college students were “too grown up” care about stockings anymore. We started planning for next year. This time, we’d make cute little stuffed animal ornaments, like puppies and kitties (even pigs!) with little holiday hats. These proved to be incredibly time consuming, but as college students we figured our labor being “free” was acceptable. Again, our hopes were squashed. That year, we discovered a disturbing turn of events at the craft fair: some enterprising graduate student was simply buying trays of samosas from a local Indian restaurant right across the street, marking them up to $1 each and selling out before lunch. Outrageous! These were not even “crafts”! We were furious but determined. Before that year’s fair was even over, we hatched a new plan.
The next morning, we arrived still with our cute puppy ornaments but also armed with pans and pans of baked goods. We made my friend’s famous Apple Sauce Cake and Carrot Cake in abundance and sold them for $1 per slice. We figured we were better than the Samosa Lady (she predictably came back the next day) because we at least provided napkins which we’d of course commandeered from the cafeteria. We sold out. We ended up making 80 bucks each that year, a veritable fortune at the time.
I still have one of the stockings my friend made all those years ago: a super cute faux fur dalmatian print stocking with ruffles and fake pearls. I still put it up every year. It serves not only as a reminder to never participate in a holiday craft fair again, but also as a token of our dear friendship which is still going strong after 35 years!

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Fall Into Quilting

It might already be too late

Fall is the perfect time for quilting. Summer vacations are over; the kids are back to school; work hasn’t hit the inevitable end of the year crunch yet, and the quilt shops have all their holiday colors out in full bloom. Time to start making holiday gifts… or is it?
Every year right about this time, I am stricken with the ambition to make handmade gifts for everyone I know. Then, with startling regularity, the last week in December I’m scrambling for gifts because I pretty much didn’t finish anything. What is a habitual crafter to do? Consider this:

  • Start Early – For what is worth, it’s October. Its already too late. Juts go back to knitting your Rhinebeck sweater. You might (barely) still have a shot at that.
  • Prune the List – I know you are awesome and crafty, and it would be cool to give some handmade love to everyone, but you need to be realistic. Pick one or two top loved ones to craft for this year.
  • Cookies are Still Handmade – Everyone else can get a tin of homemade cookies. How else could you bang out 10 handmade gifts in an afternoon? You know that cute tiny Santa fabric you didn’t have time to make into rug mugs for your entire quilt guild? Just cut a square with your pinking shears, affix with a ribbon to the top of a mason jar full of cookies and it’s pretty good enough.
  • Get a Jump on Next Year – Everything you planned to do but it’s already way too late (refer back to #1), just make it anyway. You will have a head start on next year. I have said this for three years running and I still haven’t finished a January birthday gift for my Bestie. It will get done eventually and when it does, its going to be awesome!

Remember, there are always local donut shop gift cards.